Different Classes of Approaching Women

Have you ever stopped to think that how and why you approach varies differently according to situations?

Let me explain. 

There are a handful of situations where you can approach a woman. 

One, she notices you and you exchange eye contact. She keeps it for longer than usual. That’s your cue!

Two, she notices you and you exchange eye contact. She breaks eye contact immediately yet looks at you again after a few seconds. What would you do?

Three, she notices you and exchanges eye contact with you. She breaks eye contact and does not look at you again. 

Four, she does not notice you even (that’s sad!).

Okay, in the first case, it is probably obvious that she likes you and wants you to go talk to her. If you don’t, you are a sissy.

In the second case, she is just a bit shyer than the above girl but she likes you too. You can go talk to her.

In both the above cases, you can just go and say ‘hi’ – somewhat direct approach. That will do. You must know that glances and eye contact are one of the most crucial things that women do to signal their interest in you.

In the last two cases however, you cannot be sure whether she wants you to flirt with her or not. In the third case, it can probably be that she is preoccupied with something and did not notice you. In the fourth case, it might just be that she did not notice you – nothing wrong in that, right? 

What I would do in these situations is, go and introduce myself. In other words, even if she looks busy or does not look at you, you just go and say ‘hi’ to her. Yes, she might not be interested – completely plausible. But what if she does? 

Yes, there are certain environments that are more conducive such as night clubs, discos and bars. Come on, a girl working in a busy retail shop might not be interested to chat with you that much. She is not there to chat and socialize with guys. She is there to work. She is just not in the mood. Then again, when the time is right and the work pressure is low, she just might give you her number. 

One thing to understand and remember in every approach is that you can NEVER predict exactly how it is going to end. You just have to do it. Just go and say Hi to the woman, whether she is walking by you, sitting with her book, working on the calculator or just plain chatting with her friends. 

You are scared and denying your own urge because she might not be interested. Funny thing, how do you know she is not going to be interested? So, you are following what is unknown and denying what is known. Just remember that this is how men meet women. This is how love happens. This is how a guy like you found his dream woman. So, get off your arse and give it a fucking shot, will you?

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