Double Your Dating Skills

Jul 22, 2009

Vincent Di Carlo Review (Natural Game)

Don’t ask me where he came from and what his father name was. In fact, I was introduced to his dating materials much later, and would I say I was blown away by the depth and directness of them. Okay, as been done with the earlier ones, let’s talk about it.

Now, you should remember that Vincent Di Carlo criticizes the approach that these Real Social Dynamics and Love systems take (To be honest, I cannot deny anything about Love systems because they are so basic and so TRUE in the regular world). Vin Di Carlo is a big proponent of the NATURAL GAME. Natural game is disregarding that it’s a game and rather following your embedded sexual nature. Rather this is an excerpt from his dating website “Vindicarlo”: “Truth be told, west-coast style pickup artists such as Mystery and Neil Strauss have a very different style from the Natural Game movement which had its roots in New York City and Boston, spearheaded by Vin Di Carlo.”

Strengths

Some of the recent developments in the “picking up women” culture show a new trend that believes that trying to maintain higher value and trying to make her lose to you in the dating game is the way to her heart is actually a child of insecurity and goes on to bring a new philosophical aspect in here. It maintains that we humans are sexual creatures and women want men, as a rule of their deeply embedded sexual nature. It declares the only key to natural game is to follow our sexual nature throughout. They believe that this results in the deep emotional and sexually charged intimate emotional soul bond that you don’t get by resorting to some useless dating manipulations or maneuvers. Vin Di Carlo proposes the following method:

Open Direct -> Rapport -> Seduction… The only rule that it advocates is “Assume Attraction”. Actually, Vin Di Carlo is a big fan and follower of Gunwitch.

This type of game reduces number of flakes and makes for solid conversion rates by a drastic extent, as is proven from the field.

Weaknesses

Well let’s be true here. I’m a big proponent of the direct natural game and a big fan of the Attraction Code Book, but my stay in this field for so long a time has made one thing clear to me and that is “too direct, sometimes you win; too indirect, sometimes you win”. And we don’t want something that promises us win “sometimes”. Though it reduces number of flakes, wastage of time and energy, and provides a better chance to get quality girls, we need to be able to pull it off most of the time, natural game is more of a direct game. But then again, natural game is somewhat different from the direct game. And that's why, needless to say, natural game is much better than direct game and indirect game.

My suggestion: learn the Natural Game but from the one who knows Natural Game.

Gunwitch Review

If I don’t include one person among this list, it would be really incomplete, and he is Gunwitch. And mind you, I revere this guy very much and a big fan of his teachings.

The method is based on our deep ingrained sexuality and how to connect with that to seduce the woman you want. His tagline “Make the ho say no” only can turn you into a magician in the dating field. If you check his online dating materials out, you would find them to be very simple and really too simple to even seem to be effective at first.

Strengths

What you got to do is just roll up to the woman and talk with her on daily non-personal or lightly personal topics and slowly moving in all the way. But the essence of this game is that you have to be highly in tune with your sexual state, and everything is done on a subconscious level. That’s the key to this dating game. You get aroused and your arousal seduces her to arousal, as simple as that. You are a predating tiger and you go straight for your kill, but you keep it very subtle as your prey wants to get killed all the way. It’s not picking up women but rather, (I’d say) seducing women. Your aroused state and huge persistence are the main factor at work (though there are several other things as well).

And strangely enough, you would surprised by the high number of success met on the field following this method.

Weaknesses

Though very powerful, it might be rocket launcher but definitely not a sniper rifle. But also let me add that I’ve met guys who advocate Gunwitch’s method and say that they have got the women they wanted, just by being the horny tiger, and it can be dare-said that it is one of the best online seduction manual out there.

Can’t say anything on this and would only tell you to visit www.gunwitch.com to learn more and decide for yourself.

Ross Jeffries (Speed Seduction) Review

To be true to you guys, I’m not doing justice to the name of the blog by writing about this person BECAUSE I REALLY HAVEN’T READ ANY OF HIS MANUALS OR GONE THROUGH ANY OF HIS DVD PROGRAMS. But I just couldn’t keep him out of my list. See, I told you I will bring the best of the best (at least, according to me) and keeping in mind, his popularity in the world of online dating coaches, I had to mention his name here. Having said that, don’t expect me to list down the positives and negatives of this person. I refuse to give my judgment but I would rather give you a brief idea of what his courting or dating process entails from the various feedbacks from other guys who have tried his products and also from the email newsletters that I’ve started to get now of late.

As the story goes, Ross Jeffries and Mystery were die-hard competitors and Ross Jeffries was a very harsh critic of the Mystery Method. But as luck would have it (or rather talent would have it), a few years after the entry of Mystery into the secret world, he soared to the number one spot and completely eclipsed the popularity of Ross Jeffries, and even stole some of his students too.

Now, let me just tell you what Speed Seduction actually comprises of. Have you heard of NLP? It stands for Neuro-Linguistic Programming. His basic idea is that seduction is nothing but smoothly and skillfully seducing the psychology of the other person. With some special tricks and routines, you can successfully get control over the subconscious wiring of the person and thus, direct her conscious actions towards the specific way you want. But from his e-newsletters, I can tell you one thing this guy has a good grasp over the subject and also provides some unique concepts into the realm. Ross Jeffries is one of the founding fathers of this secret seduction community; with his innovative and effective online dating guides, he has helped a lot of students all over the world.

Anyway, those who are GREAT will always be GREAT, even if they are not in the focus and remember, if we are talking about the leaders in the field of seduction, we have to broach in the name of Ross Jeffries.

Carlos Xuma Review - "Alpha Male...Are You?"

Carlos Xuma Alpha Time...All this time we talked on how to approach women, how to act alpha, how to pick up women, how to seduce women - almost on every dating-women issue. But did we ever consider what women want? I’m not going to go into this controversial topic here, but it has widely acknowledged that women want QUALITY MEN and women love ALPHA MALES. I never even knew the meaning of Alpha male till the Carlos Xuma notes fell into my hand, I was completely overwhelmed by his way of approach to this women and dating thing.

Carlos Xuma mainly focuses on 'How to become an Alpha Male' (though Carlos Xuma's Dating Black Book, Approach Woman Versions and certain other specializations are popular as well).

He says, “Women are attracted to the Alpha males”…Character, Integrity, Courage and so – I mean, what makes up an Alpha man then? Carlos says, Power makes you become an Alpha Male. You become an Alpha Male by dint of your inner game.

Strengths

Man, is he different. He takes a different approach to the whole women and dating thing, often simplifying the harder concepts into smaller easily comprehensible and edible bits. You cannot actually say that he is up for the indirect game or the direct game. But he's a big proponent of the concept of Inner Game and how that shapes you as a Man. Yes, that's what he's focused on. This guy is an ORIGINAL among the many fake ones in the scene, and his way is to improve oneself over the time and thus, his dating programs turn you into a NATURALLY ATTRACTIVE MAN women love. Of course, he will also give you some practical innovative dating tips/advices to play it hard but ultimately, you end up becoming that person who doesn't have to play to attract and seduce women. It's never manipulation. Remember, you are the Attraction and Seduction itself.

Weaknesses

Actually Carlos is one of those dating experts online that cooks up all the right elements and gives you a tasty dish (his online dating guide materials). He goes deep into it and heaves out the rich diamond from inside. I really don’t have any bad review about it (You must be thinking I'm only marketing about his dating products, but to be very honest, in this field, you evolve your own style, once you get the hang of it, and to get to that level, you need to read each and every authentic worthwhile online dating guru out there...just my two cents). He has got some marvelous quality dating guide materials coming online... especially the special Carlos Xuma (Day Game | Approach women (newbie and advanced course), Carlos Xuma Alpha Men programs (alpha immersion, alpha lifestyle and many more), dating black book, etc, it’s something any person learning this stuff should check out.

And don't forget, Carlos Xuma's famous alpha quote though, “Everyone makes his own destiny but only the SUCCESSFUL admit it”... It can make a great PICK-UP LINE, don't you think?