Jul 27, 2009

Stephen Nash Review - "You Want A Girlfriend?"

We know Stephen Nash (the famous online dating guide/instructor) from the Project Hollywood days. He was company to other popular pickup artists, dating gurus like the ones of Papa, Jeffy, Tyler and many more. He is also one of the first pilot batches of the seduction community out there. Currently, he's the MD of Cutting Edge Image Consulting and act as a dating guide for the various guys who seek his help. So, let's see what's the deal with Stephen Nash.

Strengths


To start with, I must say I have recently started getting his e-newsletters (a great online dating guide for men) and I can say one thing, this guy GETS IT! No I'm doing an advertisement here, don't worry. I've read thousands of dating materials and I've learnt one thing. That is "you can never be a dating guru, you just keep on learning...".  After reading his "How to Get a Girlfriend" dating guide eBook available online, I felt like "He is so NATURAL", and this guy keeps on innovating new concepts and ideas every now and then. Visit his blog and you will know why I say so. He presents the most profound thoughts and realities in such an clear and down-to-earth, practical tone that it sure helps any guy out there. Even if you don't get his book, you will want to get hold of his dating online newsletters or the 10 free "how to get girlfriend" lessons that he gives to his free subscribers. They are SO informative and I iterate the one trait that I like about it so much is its HONESTY, TRUTHFULNESS and PRACTICALITY. You may strive towards becoming a full-blown pickup artist, but yes, if you want to inculcate an in-depth understanding of the art called Dating Women, you got to study him.

Weaknesses


He's not the one who tries to create controversies and publicity by bringing something weird  onto the table, but rather goes down deep into it and brings out the already present parts in a much more convincing manner. Though, he can be costly...the one-on-one sessions, they are worth it I think. And while he may not be able to teach you turnkey quick-fix gimmicks and routines that you can use tonight such as RSD and Love Systems, a long term association with him will turn you into a better man, giving you an original perspective providing a much clear picture of the dating game…


Before I finish, to add my own remark, a short simple comment... Stephen Nash is one of the best (though underestimated, I feel so) online dating coaches/instructors, providing invaluable dating advice, acting as a guide for men... at least after so much study, that's what I think!

Jul 26, 2009

Neil Strauss (Style) Review - "It's a Game, Baby!"

Who in the community doesn't know about Neil Strauss? The author of the famous "The Game" and the sequel "The Rules of the Game"... He is better known as Style. Well a generic introduction to Neil Strauss would be that he is a well-known writer in the Rolling Stone Magazine (for which he has quite social proof as well).He was once an accomplice of Mystery like Nick Savoy and Papa (the online dating coaches you are going to read about as scroll down).

Anyway, let's go straight to the dissection part:

Strengths

He is a master of attracting and flirting with women (damn good and it's proven in the field). He is very subtle in pulling them towards him and making them qualify themselves to him, eventually becoming his biggest fan and lover.....Social status... He is very strong in this game (already proved in the game), and I would say his 'style' (no pun intended) is best for the shy, more reserved guys out there. He will teach you the basics of the game and will mold them so that you can 'threatlessly' use them in the normal world. Well, I use the word "threatlessly" because most of the time that holds our success  (mainly, the shy nerds) with women is our FEAR. And there's two way to get around it: Either face it and overcome it or evade it. And he shows you the way how to detour it to the end.

Weaknesses

It has been reported often that Neil is not good at approaching women. He just doesn't like to socialize much. He gets women through his social circle or hookups more often and know how to attract them. That's it. He uses his status as a famous author well and it has been seen that he more or less doesn't mingle that much with other PUAs. He is very obsessed with status and maneuvers his status game to attract girls and women. As a online dating coach, he might be worth a visit but given the expensive fees that he charge from his students (though not sure if he teaches or not), he is not worth that much investment.

As has been recounted more often by recognized people of the community....

Neil Strauss - Status obsessed
Tyler Dryden - Power obsessed
Mystery - Attention obsessed

Jul 22, 2009

David De Angelo Review - "Double Your Dating" with Women

If one online dating guru has to be named out of all, that has to be Eben Pagan. Couldn’t recognize him? Well then you might have heard about the famous 'Cocky-Funny' women and dating concept, haven’t you? Yeah. Now you guessed it. It’s David De Angelo or in short David D. He is a real estate business and regards it as his main profession. But concurrently, he acts as a onine dating guide for men as well.
I’m receiving his e-newsletters (one of his many online dating guides, containing dating advice for men) for quite some time; in fact, he was one of those online dating instructors who I started following at the very onset of my journey. He promises to DOUBLE YOUR DATING life and might I say, he does that (this guy knows a lot about women and dating).
Strengths
What I liked about Mr. David is his simplicity and directness. Not to speak of the clear-cut verified dating truths about women and dating, he presented in the most elucidating informative manner. Man, this guy knows how to teach! It’s one thing to be a player and another thing to be a coach. I bet anyone my entire dating knowledge that he is one highly knowledgeable and “understandable” online dating guide/philosopher/friend among the online seduction masters community. Each of his books, “On being a Man”, “Double Your Dating” and many more, in addition to the wide range of CDs and DVDs, propagates the message the most basic way. I believe there are two parts of the Double Your Dating eBook guide. Starting from what attraction is to how to maintain a strong game, how to be a man and how to understand a woman, he says it all and all are so true! If his name doesn't attract you, his online dating guide materials (eBooks, audio/video CDs, workshops, etc) need to be checked out for every newbie in the gruelling wicked dating field, if you know what I mean. Just adding another weapon to your arsenal…
Weaknesses
One of the most common complaints that I get to hear about David is that he ADVERTISES his cocky-funny concept. Yes, he does. If you read his online newsletters daily circulated on new-age women and dating concepts, you would come to notice that very soon. I used to hate those e-newsletters due to this for quite some time and stopped reading them. Inbox, delete, inbox, delete… But very honestly, when I read "Double your Dating" ebook guides (both the volumes) a number of times, I got infected by it. I understood the depth of his dating advice for men, and I can now declare myself as ONE OF THE BIGGEST FANS of his online dating guides. The key lies in digging out the good from the bad and that’s what you got to learn.
And always remember the most famous line of the master of women and dating, David De Angelo and a verified truism: Attraction is not a Choice!

Swinggcat (Real World Seduction) Review

Meta-frame, Prize and Prizability – One guy flooded the whole seduction community with his most original dating concepts. He is Swinggcat. I don’t know why these guys who flock the virtual dating community take on a pseudonym but anyway, it doesn’t matter, does it? What matters is what they are coming up with.
Real Seduction method mainly focuses on how to make women come after you. He believes that women are not to be chased but rather are made to chase you. If you think about it, this dating concept is an old one, BUT… but it is always enlightening when it comes out with some new dimension to the whole old story, ain’t it?
Strengths
I’d suggest any newbie in the dating field to learn the concept of “push pulling” from this guy. With a number of social wrestling skills, this guy makes sure that you are always in control of the girl and she ends up getting crazy about YOU. And sure it works, man. (I don’t know what others think). If you understand the concept of push-pull, meta-frame, prize and prizability, you should know that you are way ahead of other ordinary guys who are chancing on your girl. It is an intricate confusing process from how to approach women to how to get laid with them. There is a typical courting process that presses all the attraction buttons and that is what is called the GAME. And real seduction method teaches you the GAME.
Weaknesses
One of the main weaknesses (perhaps, it is not a weakness at all) of this particular online dating item is that it doesn’t present any unique concept into the picture but rather focuses on MARKETING its new package of the old “product”. Well, what I feel is if the old product is the only viable product then what can be done? But the main thing that should be kept in mind is whether it works or not and if we learn something from it or not. If we look at it properly, we do understand that Real Seduction Method is a complete original from another original one, and man, did I say it is one of the best online dating programs out there.

Mystery Method (Venusian Arts) Review

Let me share with you something. When I first set off in this marvelous world, I clutched the hands of SoSuave.com (brainchild of Allen Thompson). Soon, there from I went on to learn about a list of dating coaches who are out there to help the single guys get girlfriends. They are out to change the dating lives of the male community of the world and one of the foremost of them was Mystery (real name: Erik Von Markovik).
He created his own “get women” method that was based on a whole indirect approach. Starting from how to approach women to how to get laid, they analyzed the whole process, broke them into bits and assimilated the parts into digestible bits. These figured out a whole new dating product and a uniquely original seduction system called the Mystery Method. It includes PUAs like Mystery, Matador, Lovedrop, etc.
Positives
If I have to say something about Mystery Method, I’d put forward its ORIGINALITY. It was completely a new of its kind and was a breakthrough in the seduction community. To be honest, Mystery method was kind of a pioneer in the world of pick-up women art. It formulated a whole scientific methodical dating model that aimed to create a new genre of men, the pick-up artists. Mystery, in the introduction of its book “the Mystery Method”, clearly differentiated between the pick-up artists, players and seducers. Players are insecure, seducers are wrong in their process and he alluded to the point that true seducers are ultimate pick-up artists. Mystery was the first to turn this whole mumbo-jumbo into an exact science that follows the process below:
Opening -> Transition -> Attraction -> Comfort/Rapport -> Seduction -> Relationships
Negatives
One of the biggest problems of these online dating products or dating sites is that they are cramped with an information load. Lots of dating tips, advice, plenty of dating advice, all tucked in together in a incoherent manner that the normal ordinary guy who never had come across this seduction stuff will find it hard to imbibe the paramount dating or courting fundamentals. Moreover, it is highly likely that the stiff model will turn them into “social robots” (as termed by Style, one of the best friends and a renowned dating coach in the world; you can check his website: http://www.stylelife.com)
Moreover, I shouldn’t critic anyone as a person but I feel Mystery is an insecure person and his dating model is reeking with insecurity. But don’t be fooled, this seduction method has the potential to get single guys the best of the quality women out there, whether they are 18 years old chicks or full grown working women, whether they are single or committed.
As it is said, if you want a long-term relationship and marriage, he might not be the best man to contact to, but when it comes to becoming a PICK-UP ARTIST, he is the BEST in the world and you want to meet him (though he is a bit expensive nowadays).