A Successful Relationship With a Woman - It's Not That Hard!

Well, this is in response to the previous post on how women think. In that post, I wanted to explain how falling in love is easy but keeping that love and maintaining that relationship is so damn hard.

But then again, the most important thing that keeps your relationship is not to think about how to keep it. Well yes, that’s the trick to a successful relationship. If you care too much, you convey insecurity and you ruin the chemistry. I heard it somewhere, the person who cares the least holds the power. And that’s so TRUE.

Secondly, do you ever own a woman? Even if you think like that, you are a complete fool. She is in the relationship with you on her choice. You can pick her up and hump her once, perhaps with a little force but you cannot do it every day. It gets boring. You got to make her like it and want it by her. You want her to come to you for that. It is not only about sex but also about the emotional satisfaction as well.

And you have to be the MAN here. You have to accept the responsibility that you were not man enough and she had to leave you for someone else. No, let me rephrase that. You were a MAN but you were just not what she wanted. See, she might want a big beefed up bodybuilder (yes, some do). If you are not so muscularly built, does that mean you were NOT a man? Hell, no. It just says that she wanted to feel something else. Well, she might want to FEEL safer with that big man. Or perhaps, your woman leaves you for a taller man. She was just looking for more dominance. It happens.

First of all, you have to understand that some things are just out of control. You cannot control that. And some are under control. You can act more aggressive, challenging and threatening, for the girls who love the dominance of the man. For the ones who are more of a romantic kind, you can act sweet and caring. Ultimately, it’s what she wants. You need to give her what she wants. If you don’t give her, she leaves you. It is as simple as that.

So, to all the men in relationships with women, what do you need to do? You need to LET GO and START W0RKING ON YOURSELF. Figure out what a woman like her might want and just go for it. And accept the fact that she is NEVER your property. She is a human being who you can only influence, not coerce.

You must also remember that some girls just don’t know how to keep a relationship. They are not relationship material. They are just out to have some fun. May be, some of them are really troubled girls and even when they say they want to be in a steady relationship, they can’t, because they just DON’T want to. ***k them!

So, what do you learn from this blog? No attachment! Repeat after me, ‘no attachment’! She needs you and you like her. You NEVER need her. You are the value, the source of pleasure to her. She is just another of her kind. She is just a source of good feeling in your life. That’s it.

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