Western Guys Love Asian Women - Simon Heong

So why is that so many guys LOVE Asian women?

It seems like every year, more Western guys are dating and
marrying women from countries like China, Japan and the
Philippines. (And I can't blame them...personally, I think Asian
girls are the sexiest women in the world!)

It's not only their exotic looks we are drawn to.

There are a number of important reasons why men find Asian women
so appealing. Some of these reasons, we're not even aware of
on a conscious level!

Here are some of the big ones:

#1 They have strong sexual appeal.

The silky hair; flawless skin; petite, hard bodies; and exotic
Oriental features add up to combination that a lot of men find
irresistible.

Anatomically, the Asian face (particularly the women with
more "Oriental" features) is constructed so that it seems to
convey less expression and emotion than the faces of Caucasian
people.

The construct of their faces makes Asian women more "difficult
to read" than Caucasian women, who tend to express and share
their feelings constantly (whether we're in the mood to know
about their feelings, or not!).

This gives Asian woman an air of mystery and unpredictability,
which is deeply attractive to men -- because we're hard-wired
to thrive on challenges and the thrill of the hunt.

#2 They are approachable.

In my experience, there is no question that Asian women are
more approachable than Western women. First of all, they smile
more. It's part of their culture.

Thailand is literally called "The Land Of Smiles" because people
smile all the time.

But hey, it beats being around a bunch of frowning, frumpy
Western women!

Try walking around a shopping mall in Bangkok, Jakarta or Manila...
your mind will be blown by how many pretty young women are
simply willing to smile at you when you make eye contact.

Contrast this with the hot women in America.

They will frown most of the time in order to assert that they
are "too cool" to be bothered with meeting anyone new.

Asian women are willing to talk to you. At that point, the key
is knowing how to build their interest and attraction.

#3 They are excellent homemakers and take pride in managing the
household.

Visit a home run by an Asian woman, and you'll find that it is
always organized and clean. The meals are prepared with care,
the husband always wears clean clothes, and the children are
well-fed and neatly dressed.

Unless your Asian sweetheart is from a rich family that
employed servants, she was helping out with household duties
starting at a young age. Even the poorest families keep their
living space as clean as possible.

In Asia, women will always make sure that your home is clean,
and they will take pride in cooking your meals and keeping you
well-fed.

#4 They have a rich sense of culture and heritage.

Many Westerners are fascinated by the colorful, exotic,
mysterious cultures of Asia, which are steeped in history. In
recent times, Asia has gotten a reputation as being rather
"trendy" among Westerners.

This is particularly true with Japan, which Westerners have
begun to recognize as a Mecca for fashion. (Japanese girls are
years ahead of Western girls, with their super-cool, futuristic
styles of dress.)

Why else would so many Caucasians, both men and women, put
tattoos of Chinese and Japanese characters on their
bodies--without ever even having visited those countries?

Personally, I think it's pathetic. ("Check out the Japanese
character I got tattooed on my shoulder--doesn't it make me
look edgy and spiritual? I got it at a tattoo shop in
New Jersey.")

By dating an Asian woman, you'll have the opportunity to learn
more her fascinating culture--including its beliefs, traditions,
music, cuisine, movies, arts, and history.

This isn't the case when you date a woman who grew up in the
town next to yours. Being able to constantly learn new things
about her culture, while sharing yours with her, can be a big
advantage in a relationship.

There is less chance of the two of you growing bored with
each other. When you date an Asian woman and have genuine
appreciation for her culture and background, there are new
things for you to explore every day.

#5 Asian women place a high value on relationships and have
unconditional love for their family.

Another attractive aspect of Asian women is that unlike most
of their counterparts in Western countries, they put tremendous
value on their families and relationships.

Choose the right partner, and she'll be highly loyal to you
and will avoid doing anything that will damage the relationship.
This tends to bring out the best in you as a man.

Did you know that the Philippines is one of only two countries
in the world where there is no divorce? It does not exist.
Filipinas are raised to believe that when they marry, it is for
life.

Even in other, more developed Asian countries (where there is
divorce), it is considered a shameful last resort--unlike in
Western countries, where the attitude isn't until "'til death
us part."

It's more like, "Let's give it a try, and if it's not working
out six months from now, I'll take your house and half your
money, you jackass."

Again, I must remind you that I am speaking in general terms
here. Are all Asian women passionately loyal and committed to
their relationships?

Of course not.

There are plenty of warped women and gold diggers out there;
you've got to keep your wits about you and know to avoid them.

#6 We believe the attraction is mutual. A big reason why a lot
 of guys "hone in" on Asian women is that they've been told that
Asian women are as attracted to foreigners as we are to them.

This idea of a "mutual fascination" is appealing to guys who
are fed up with Western women making them jump through hoops in
order to sleep with them.

And if you are reasonably attractive and have white skin, it
is "true" that many Asian women will desire to have a
light-skinned child with you.

True, this.

#7 They are spiritually grounded.

Many Asian women observe a religion and take it seriously. Whether
she worships God, Buddha or whomever, religion tends to give
Asian women a sense of calmness and inner peace that many
Western women lack.

Asian women don't need to do constant "soul searching" and fret
about what is lacking in their lives. For the Asian woman, a
loving partner, a happy, healthy household, and the love of
her family and God is enough. (Isn't that how it should be?)

#8 They have a hardworking nature.

Asian women from poorer families typically start helping out
their families from a very young age, waking up early to help
out with house-hold chores.

This is a dramatic difference from the way children are
typically raised in Western countries. Also, they believe
in working hard in order to provide a better future for
their families.

This is evident in immigrant communities throughout the
Western world; they'll work 24 hours a day if it means being
able to send money home and enabling family members to migrate
there and join them.

These people respect the value of hard work--and a woman from
this type of background is not going to turn into a spoiled
"princess" once you marry her.

#9 Asian women can genuinely love an older man.

In America, once a guy begins to feel "old" he believes that
his dating options are limited to women his own age. I'm not
just talking about guys who have reached retirement age.

Even guys who are in their 30s start to think that women in
their 20s are "out of their range!" Which is crazy...

In Asia, it's perfectly normal for older guys to be with
younger women (and not just the girls who can be "rented"
for the night).

A 40-year-old Westerner is often considered young by the local
ladies. In fact, if you're under the age of 40, some Asian
women will rule you out because they feel you're not yet mature
and responsible enough for a serious relationship!

#10 Asian women make a man feel like a MAN.

This is the biggest reason why so many men feel compelled to be
with Asian women. The pure femininity of Asian women encourages
the man to play the masculine role in the relationship, and
she loves him for it.

Plus, their petite size makes a man feel physically big and
strong, even if he isn't a big "hunk" by Western standards.
(On the other hand, you've got to have some bulk these days
to handle the "white whales" in America.

I read somewhere that the average weight of an American woman
has reached 169 pounds--the size of some NFL defensive backs!)

In short, Western women do make certain guys feel "small";
Asian women make certain guys feel "big."

Does this mean that we as guys are insecure and need to have
our egos stroked?

No.

It means that Asian women are more inclined or have a much
higher likelihood to allow guys to feel like the masculine
beings we were born to be.

They love us for our masculinity, instead of making us suppress it.

As I said before, our genetic programming plays a big role in
our attraction to Asian women. As men, we are attracted to
women who embody femininity.

We want to be their protectors, and we naturally mesh with
Asian women because they desire a man who is strong, secure
and able to provide for them and protect them.

Who doesn't  like "being the man."

Don't you?

... and get this: Once you understand how and why Asian women
are attracted to certain types of men, and how the dating
'game' works, you will see things in a whole NEW way.
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