Learn Natural Game the Natural Way

This article is for the newbie pickup artists who just entered into the seduction community. Just look at them... they are literally inundated by the various methods from the hundreds of the so-called dating gurus out there. Some will be championing the cause of neuro-linguistic programming, some will be rooting for EFT, and some will be espousing the indirect stealth game. I have been there and I know how difficult it is for the newbie to decide what he needs in the first place.

Tell you what... you should not go for any of these kinds of games. I am not dejecting or decrying any of these methods, but the problem lies in the fact that they are all after all METHODS. Methods are not suitable for your social, mental and emotional development. Rather you should learn natural game. What is natural game? Natural game is the phase where you don't have to play any game, at least not consciously. You are playing natural game, when you just walk up to a girl, talk to her for a few minutes and without putting any conscious effort, she seems all over you. That's Natural Game.

Here are a few pointers to the people who want to learn natural game.

1. The very first thing that should be recognized and believed is that natural game is not supposed to be learned. It is not some method or skill that you can adopt. It is YOU, that is, an identity level change for which you are striving so hard. It will take time and most of the time, it occurs on its own. Just keep playing.

2. Do try out the different methods though. They are not absolutely futile. They can of course help you understand what works and what does not. This will help you internalize the various factors towards you becoming the player.

3. Respect yourself as a person and the woman with whom you are getting together. Being totally honest and sincere with yourself and her, you will create a real connection which will help lead to that blissful love phase, and not just superficial sexual attraction. Always keep a pure mindset towards this whole dating thing. It is an important part of the lives of both men and women.

4. And do keep searching and improving over the time. It is a journey where the game comes and grows upon you, until people start to call you Don Juan or Casanova. So keep it fun and stick to it.

Remember, the ultimate level of game is having NO GAME at all. In order to reach that level, you learn the natural game. Go for it, player!

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