Want to know a big secret about women? You would? OK, listen up,
and I'll tell you. Here it is: women like men who love women.
If you read any cheesy romance novel, one trait the hero always
possesses is that he loves women... in fact, he has a weakness forthem.
There are many men out there who either actively dislike, or simply
tolerate women. There are not many men who truly love women, even
though that kind of man is devastatingly attractive.
Now, what does "love women" mean? In this case, it doesn't mean
being in love with one woman. What it means is understanding and
appreciating women for who they are, and what they bring.
It means choosing to hang out with beautiful women instead of "the
guys" while still being a real man. I'm not talking about hanging
out with women to compare fashion tips and squeal about who's
cheating on whom like girlie men do.
Rather I am talking about choosing to be around women because you
find them irresistible and they can sense that.
Women will talk amongst themselves about men who love women, and
will often introduce their friends to such a man because he is so
hard to find. Such a man is, at times, excused from being a
"womanizer" because women find his weakness for women so attractive.
No one is perfect, they sigh, and his weakness is women. He can
resist or withstand everything else, but when around women, all his
good sense goes out the door.
The man who does not like women or merely tolerates them is not
afforded this leeway. He may date or even marry, but at the first
sign of impropriety conflict arises and his relationship begins to
disintegrate.
If you want to have a lot of great women in your life, make it your
business to fall in love with women in general, not just a woman.
Soon you will have more than you know what to do with, and when youare ready you can always choose one--the best one, in this case.
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and I'll tell you. Here it is: women like men who love women.
If you read any cheesy romance novel, one trait the hero always
possesses is that he loves women... in fact, he has a weakness forthem.
There are many men out there who either actively dislike, or simply
tolerate women. There are not many men who truly love women, even
though that kind of man is devastatingly attractive.
Now, what does "love women" mean? In this case, it doesn't mean
being in love with one woman. What it means is understanding and
appreciating women for who they are, and what they bring.
It means choosing to hang out with beautiful women instead of "the
guys" while still being a real man. I'm not talking about hanging
out with women to compare fashion tips and squeal about who's
cheating on whom like girlie men do.
Rather I am talking about choosing to be around women because you
find them irresistible and they can sense that.
Women will talk amongst themselves about men who love women, and
will often introduce their friends to such a man because he is so
hard to find. Such a man is, at times, excused from being a
"womanizer" because women find his weakness for women so attractive.
No one is perfect, they sigh, and his weakness is women. He can
resist or withstand everything else, but when around women, all his
good sense goes out the door.
The man who does not like women or merely tolerates them is not
afforded this leeway. He may date or even marry, but at the first
sign of impropriety conflict arises and his relationship begins to
disintegrate.
If you want to have a lot of great women in your life, make it your
business to fall in love with women in general, not just a woman.
Soon you will have more than you know what to do with, and when youare ready you can always choose one--the best one, in this case.
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