Apr 21, 2011

Why Is She Smiling If She's Not Interested?

A lot of times a reader will email me and ask, "There's
this woman who's always smiling at me. But when I asked her out,
she said 'no'. What did I do wrong?"

       Well...honestly...just because a woman smiles at you
does not mean she's interested in you. The only way to find
out if a woman is REALLY interested in you is by doing the
the flirt-test. All other body language signs are SECONDARY.
       With that said, there are also several kinds
of smiles that a woman may give to a man. So just because a
woman is smiling doesn't mean she's necessarily happy
with you. She could actually be bored...or disgusted.

       Here are 5 basic kinds of smiles:

1) The Bored Smile

       This is the kind of smile a woman may give you if
she's bored with a conversation. It is a slight smile
with the corners of her mouth just a little tensed up.
You may catch her looking around the room...


2) The Forced Smile

       This is the smile a woman will give you if she
seriously does not like you or if she thinks you're
annoying or stupid. The smile is tighter than the
bored smile, with even more tension in the corners of
her mouth than the bored smile. She may give you a
sarcastic look with her eyes.

3) The Polite Smile

       The polite smile is a smile a waitress or
bartender will give you for tips. How do you know
it's not real? Simple. Just check the corners of her
mouth. If they are all tensed up, she's faking it.


4) The Dreamy Smile

       The dreamy smile is the smile she will give
when she's fascinated by your story or really enjoying
a deep conversation with you. The smile will be
a natural smile without any tension, and her eyes
will look like she has wandered into another
world.

5) The Genuine Smile

       The genuine smile is the smile a woman
will give you when she's really happy. There'll be
lots of teeth, no tension in the face, and her head
will often throw back as she laughs out loud. Her
eyes may even twinkle with happiness.

       So now that you know how to tell the
differences between the different kinds of smiles,
I want you to notice them in the real world. Next
time you go out, observe the people around you
and see what kind of smiles they are showing to
the people they are talking to. You'll be amazed
at all the things you'll learn about how humans
interact with each other.

       I often ride the bus just to do this
exercise!
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