You worked up the courage to approach a girl and start a
conversation. But the moment you opened your mouth, she finds
an excuse to not talk to you.
She REJECTS you, damn!
Did you do something wrong?
Maybe you or maybe you didn't.
Perhaps you made a mistake on your approach.
On the other hand, there might be a specific reason WHY she
rejected you. One that you can't control.
The fact is it's hard to understand a woman.
Many times a woman will reject you because you haven't PROVEN
your worth. On the other hands, there are also a number of
factors that you CAN'T control.
The following are five such factors why a woman rejects you:
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1- She is taken
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One of the simplest reasons why a woman will reject you is she
has a boyfriend or husband.
Before you approach a woman look for obvious signs of attachment
like a lingering guy or a wedding/engagement ring on her finger.
Yes, some will cheat on their significant other, but you REALLY
don't want that kind of baggage in your life (and the bad karma).
So if a woman is off the market, move on to someone who IS
available.
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2- She is not in a good mood
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We all have days where we're in a bad mood. Perhaps you
approached one hour after her dog died. Or maybe she had a
crappy day at work.
Sometimes she's simply not interested in having a guy talk to
her because of what's going on in her life.
It's important to see how she's acting before you approach.
If she looks particularly angry, or has a general "F___ You"
attitude stamped across her forehead, perhaps it's best to stay
away.
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3- She is evil
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Now one principles I try to teach is that ANY rejection is the
result of something that went wrong.
By adopting this attitude, I examine what I did wrong and learn
from it.
But there is a simple truth about a select few women. There are
some girls who are just plain ole evil.
Frankly they enjoy manipulating guys and hurting them. If you
see scores of guys approaching a woman and walking away with a
dejected look, then you might be dealing with an evil girl.
My advice...don't deal with negative people like this. There
are plenty of great women who won't rip your heart out.
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4- She was recently hurt
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There are certain periods in a woman's life where she's not
interested in dating men.
A lot of this is due to the fact that another guy has hurt her.
Yes, she still likes guys. But there's a strong resistence to
meeting new ones out of fear of being hurt again.
To her, you represent ALL men who has hurt her in her life.
You can usually tell a girl like this when she brings up her ex
in the first few minutes of a conversation. It's like having
a big neon sign over head stating, "I have baggage!"
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5- She didn't like your approach
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The way you approached a woman was wrong. Perhaps you used a
cheesy pick up line or you didn't display the right kind of body language.
The point is out of ALL 5 of these tips this is the ONE action
you CAN control.
So if you know the right way to approach a woman and initiate a
conversation, then you'll quickly reduce your chances of
rejection.
But sometimes, you just have to do your thing. It is up to her whether she rejects you or not.
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You can reprint this post in your website or blog ONLY IF you link back to our home page, Modern Men's Online Dating Guide blog - Ron C.
Did you do something wrong?
Maybe you or maybe you didn't.
Perhaps you made a mistake on your approach.
On the other hand, there might be a specific reason WHY she
rejected you. One that you can't control.
The fact is it's hard to understand a woman.
Many times a woman will reject you because you haven't PROVEN
your worth. On the other hands, there are also a number of
factors that you CAN'T control.
The following are five such factors why a woman rejects you:
=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-
1- She is taken
=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-
One of the simplest reasons why a woman will reject you is she
has a boyfriend or husband.
Before you approach a woman look for obvious signs of attachment
like a lingering guy or a wedding/engagement ring on her finger.
Yes, some will cheat on their significant other, but you REALLY
don't want that kind of baggage in your life (and the bad karma).
So if a woman is off the market, move on to someone who IS
available.
=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-
2- She is not in a good mood
=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-
We all have days where we're in a bad mood. Perhaps you
approached one hour after her dog died. Or maybe she had a
crappy day at work.
Sometimes she's simply not interested in having a guy talk to
her because of what's going on in her life.
It's important to see how she's acting before you approach.
If she looks particularly angry, or has a general "F___ You"
attitude stamped across her forehead, perhaps it's best to stay
away.
=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-
3- She is evil
=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-
Now one principles I try to teach is that ANY rejection is the
result of something that went wrong.
By adopting this attitude, I examine what I did wrong and learn
from it.
But there is a simple truth about a select few women. There are
some girls who are just plain ole evil.
Frankly they enjoy manipulating guys and hurting them. If you
see scores of guys approaching a woman and walking away with a
dejected look, then you might be dealing with an evil girl.
My advice...don't deal with negative people like this. There
are plenty of great women who won't rip your heart out.
=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-
4- She was recently hurt
=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-
There are certain periods in a woman's life where she's not
interested in dating men.
A lot of this is due to the fact that another guy has hurt her.
Yes, she still likes guys. But there's a strong resistence to
meeting new ones out of fear of being hurt again.
To her, you represent ALL men who has hurt her in her life.
You can usually tell a girl like this when she brings up her ex
in the first few minutes of a conversation. It's like having
a big neon sign over head stating, "I have baggage!"
=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-
5- She didn't like your approach
=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-
The way you approached a woman was wrong. Perhaps you used a
cheesy pick up line or you didn't display the right kind of body language.
The point is out of ALL 5 of these tips this is the ONE action
you CAN control.
So if you know the right way to approach a woman and initiate a
conversation, then you'll quickly reduce your chances of
rejection.
But sometimes, you just have to do your thing. It is up to her whether she rejects you or not.
_______________________________________________________
You can reprint this post in your website or blog ONLY IF you link back to our home page, Modern Men's Online Dating Guide blog - Ron C.
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