Aug 6, 2010

How To Isolate A Woman From Her Friends

As you know, the secret to attraction is flirting...

Note: If you don't know how to flirt, download my free "Super Flirting Mastery" report manual by clicking
here.

And the BEST flirting is done one-on-one with a girl, where she's
NOT surrounded by her friends.

The question is how do you "isolate" a woman from her friends?

In today's email we're going to cover this topic. After reading
this you'll know how to get her by herself so you can focus on
creating attraction AND rapport.



Let's get started...

First off, no matter WHERE you've met a girl, you NEED to isolate.

This is AS important for a venue like bar or club as it is for
a bookstore.

No matter where you've met a girl, you have to flirt with her, as 
this is the ONLY way to creating attraction. To maximize the 
effectiveness of flirting, you must get her alone!

To accomplish this, her friends can't be included in the later
stages of an interaction. 

People act very differently when exposed to the social pressure 
of a group, and flirting can only go so far when put to the test 
by others.

Next, it's important to always keep the friendly, fun vibe like
you had when you approached the group. This outgoing attitude 
is a crucial component to being a sexually attractive guy.

So keep it friendly and fun when you're talking to her and her
friends. 

Your goal when first talking to a girl is to appear different 
from the other guys, and to break through her natural defenses. 

In other words, you're just a fun guy who is making friends.

Finally, you'll want to isolate once you're getting signs that
she's into you.

Here's where it gets a little tricky...

It's natural for a group to be suspicious of ANY guy that 
initiates a conversation, and wants to talk to one of the girls
alone. To them, you're a stranger and some guys can be REAL
dangers to women.

So as I said before, you're first step is to show that you're 
a normal guy who *might* be interested in getting to know one
of the women.

Now a great strategy you can implement is having a "wing man" 
when you're approaching women. This will be the guy who talks
to the rest of the group, while you're building attraction and
rapport with a girl.

So at this point, you might wondering "What do I SAY to get her
alone?"


Fortunately there's an easy solution... TAKE CONTROL.

I find it kind of funny that many guys don't realize how easy it
easy it is to isolate a woman from her friends. Most of the time
all you really need to do is ASK.

There are a few ways to do this.

#1- Tell her a secret.

A great technique for isolating a woman is to say that you have
a secret to tell her away from her friends. Then lead her about 
20 feet away from the group. That way she's isolated from her 
friends, but they can still see her.

What secret should you tell her? Well I like to use something
that's a little bit teasing, but flirty at the same time. 

Or you can even use what's known as a "flirty game."

#2- Lead her to a different place.

A great technique is to suggest that you find a quiet location 
in a relaxing environment. This works well if you're in a 
crowded bar or club.

Say something like, "This place is loud. Let's go in the other 
room so I can actually hear you?"

Or you can even suggest that you relax on a couch and get a 
chance to talk. 

#3- Follow-up activity.

Sometimes it's not possible to really isolate a woman from 
her friends. 

If this happens, then you really have ONE option...

You set up a follow-up activity. 

Often called a "date", you'll talk about an activity related to 
one of her (or your) interests. Mention that you're going to do 
it during the next week. 

Then when she's interested, tell her that it would be cool if
she wanted to come "tag along" with you.

Normally I like to go for the number when she's isolated, but
sometimes it's impossible to get a girl away from her friends.

But if you're getting a lot of resistance, then you'll be better
off going for her number so you can get to see her ALONE at a 
future event.

Isolating a woman doesn't have to be hard. As long as you're
projecting a fun, SAFE vibe, it's easy to get her alone for at
least a few minutes. 

As long you're LEADING the interaction, she'll WANT to know
more about you.


_______________________________________________________ 
You can reprint this post in your website or blog and link back to my home page, Modern Men's Online Dating Guide blog - Ron C.

No comments:

Post a Comment