One of the biggest misconceptions about dating
is that women are somehow "more intuitive" than men, that they possess some special sixth sence, huh!
Throughout history, humans have always tried to use the
supernatural to explain things that are mysterious to them.
Even in today's scientific world, there are still many men who
believe that women have a "special sixth sence". For example,
people always say women can "tell" if a guy is a "player" or
if he's an "insecure little boy."
After working as a dating coach for several years, I can
assure you that this is NOT true.
Women are NOT any more "psychic" than man.
They do NOT possess ANY insight towards men
any more than you do towards them. They do NOT know if
you're "lying" or "playing mind games".
"Sixth sense" is a myth.
Some of you may be thinking, "No way, Marius. I'm
sure women have a sixth sence because they can always sense
the insecurity from a guy a mile away."
And you know what? There is NOTHING psychic about
this. No sixth sence at all!
Just like ALL humans, women judge guys by looking at
their PHYSICAL BEHAVIORS, not any stupid sixth sence. They CANNOT read your thoughts any
better than you can read theirs. The ONLY information they can
rely on is based on your BEHAVIOUR.
Yes, Fashion and Grooming does form a part of it. Find more articles of it in this blog.
Let's go back to the insecure guy as an example. When
he goes to a party, he:
1) Hides in a corner.
2) Avoids eye contact.
3) Never initiates conversations.
4) Blush when women talk to him.
5) Speaks so quietly you can barely hear him.
6) Gets himself attached to a friendly woman like a
little puppy.
7) Happily obeys whatever other people request
him to do.
...and so on.
Do you REALLY have to be a "psychic" to know that
this guy is not the most confident guy on earth?
I DON'T THINK SO!
Here's the lesson of the day: People judge you
according to your BEHAVIOUR. They don't know what you're
thinking. They only know how you are ACTING. So it doesn't
matter if you're the sexiest or the most caring guy "deep
inside" when you're ACTING like a WUSSBAG or a LOSER.
Women can't read your mind. They make their opinions about
you based on your ACTIONS.
This is why it is so important for you to BEHAVE
CORRECTLY in front of women. I want you to do the following
exercise:
Pick someone you know who's VERY good with women
and OBSERVE his behavior. Next, pick someone who's
ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE with women and observe how he acts
when he is around women. You will see my point VERY quickly.
It's more than sixth sense. Trust me, the faster you learn, the better you will be.
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