The Number One Secret to Dating High School Girls (For Older Men)

Last week, a girl friend of mine said she noticed how it was
always the OLDER men who seemed to strike up interest with
younger women, especially the high school girls.

It is the older men who know how to be playful.

Being fun and playful is one of THE most important things for
older men. It is one of the aspects of older men that women
find MOST appealing.
A lot of older men know how to be playful and flirty around
women.

The young, buff stallion with the body of Adonis--but nothing
interesting to say--can't compete with the suave, playful older
gentleman who can make her feel fun and sexy.

So how do you learn to be playful around amazingly cute young high school girls, if you aren't already?

Perhaps you even know that you should be playful with her.

Maybe you've heard this before.

Perhaps you mapped everything out in your mind. You pictured
yourself being cool, relaxed and fun. She's laughing. You're
laughing. Well played!

But then comes the reality. You get in front of her and your
body locks up. You become completely inhibited.

Your mind goes blank. Your heart starts to race.

You start acting weird. Creepy.

"Oh my god," you think. "What's wrong with me?!"

It's okay.

This is natural.

Becoming good with women is more akin to learning a physical
activity, like bike riding or swimming, than learning a mental
activity, like math or chess.

Your body needs to be relaxed and uninhibited so that you can
be yourself: that cool, fun self that women will be attracted
to.

The best way to do this is to practice. And know that you
will mess it up--at first. That's okay.

You will fall off that bike. And instead of cursing the
ground and hating yourself for not being able to ride the
bike, the best thing you can do is laugh it off.

Tell yourself you are awesome for doing this, and get back
onto the bike as soon as possible.

To practice being playful, you want to understand what it is.

So what is being playful and flirting?

At its root, it is essentially role-playing.

Here are a few of these basic role-plays you can pick up and
start to practice with those naughty high school girls:

1.  I'm too sexy.

This is one of the best role-plays.  The basic idea is that
you are role-reversing: you are the sexy girl that is always
getting hit on.

When you sit down next to her, you could say something like,
"I'm not sitting too close, am I? You're not going to get too
turned on, are you?"

You could complain how women are always trying to touch you,
and you need a bodyguard. Will she be your bodyguard?

You could tell her that you don't sleep with women until the
14th date, and that she needs to buy you dinner and show you
a good time first.

2.  You're too sexy.

This is also a really fun role-play.

It's a great way to compliment her, without complimenting her.

"Oh my god, you are way too sexy.  I'm only flesh and blood,
you know."

"What are you doing? Every guy in here is jealous of me that
we're talking."

3.  You're screwing everything up.

High school girls or more generally, younger women actually 

love when you bust on them a little (in a 

playful way), because it suggests that you are a high-value
man who has high standards. You're not the typical, nervous
guy her own age who would never dare tease her, for fear of
turning her off.

If she spills a drink, instead of saying, "it's okay, don't
worry about it," it would actually make her feel better if
you joked about it.  That would truly let her know it's okay.

"Oh my god, I can't take you anywhere, go wait in the car."

Being playful is something you cultivate in yourself. You
can learn to be playful around women.

Try to do it everywhere you go. When you order coffee, tell
the cute girl behind the counter that you want 17 cups, and
then say, "No, I changed my mind. I'll just have one."

The more you do it in various situations, the more comfortable
you'll be when you get in front of that woman you are truly
interested in.

When you UNDERSTAND what is happening, how and why younger
women act the way they do, and how to make them feel
ATTRACTION, success with these younger high school girls will eventually
come because your behaviors are REAL, they come across
as natural, real and as AUTHENTIC as it can EVER be to
women...
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