Why You Should Start Dating Younger Women

If you're interested in dating fun, sexy younger women -- and 
let's be honest, what guy isn't?? -- the first and most important 
mindset is that younger women LIKE older men.

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Over the past 200-plus years, the United States government has 
been taking statistics for the age of couples getting married. 
Every year, there is a slightly wider gap between the ages of 
women and men who marry each other. That's right; younger women have 
ALWAYS gone for older men.

The reasons are rooted in evolution.


Women are programmed to seek security and safety, which 
provide the best means to raise a child, and it's a safe bet 
that an older man will have increased world knowledge, and 
other important assets including personal skills and greater 
life experience.

Society seems to force the view that it's older men who are 
chasing younger women, and that may be true to some extent, in 
more cases it's the women who are looking to date older men.

The second part of the proper mindset is knowing that if you 
dedicate yourself to pickup and really get into it, within two
years you will be having more fun with, dating young women, and enjoying 
more sex than most guys get in their entire lifetime.

The average guy only has sex with 4-7 women in his entire 
lifetime, although that's certainly not the story that the media 
seems to push onto guys.

That means you can be a virgin at 50, and as long as you're able 
to fight through your internal barriers, change your beliefs and 
ideas, and take action, within a few years (or even months) you 
can have a lifetime worth of fun.

The key idea is to get started straight away, and lose the 
EXCUSES.

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Treat the next few months as practice, and tell yourself that it 
will be a fun learning experience. Don't ever think that it's 
"too late," or that you've struggled with women for too long for 
you to make a dramatic change.

If you have the mindset that you still have plenty of time 
left--and the truth is, you do--you are likely to take action and 
feel less guilty and filled with regret (big energy killers).

You'll be more relaxed, and you're more likely to STAY motivated.

On the other hand, if you feel anxious and urgent because you 
"need to make up for lost time," women are going to smell that 
desperation like cheap cologne.

To start dating younger women try these techniques:

1. Convey Youth

How you convey your age is more important than the number of years 
you've been on this planet.

By this, I mean be happy, have a youthful smile, and enjoy life.

And certainly look at your jeans. (Yes, I'm serious!)

In fact, go and look at some new jeans this week. I always see 
older guys wearing totally unfashionable jeans, and it's one of 
the most obvious indicators that they have an old, out-of-touch 
mentality. 

Also take a cold, hard look at your hairstyle and wardrobe, and 
look to update them a bit.

If you are happy, carefree, and loving life--and your wardrobe and
personal style convey a youthful, fashionable edge--this is bound 
to make younger women notice.

2. Be Fun

I often coach older guys who are a bit too serious.

Picture four young women out on Friday night, having a good time, 
relaxing after a big week at work. They just want to kick back and 
have fun with a few drinks.

If a guy starts talking with them about serious topics that lower 
their energy level, it's just not going to fly.

Younger women generally like older guys because they provide much more 
interesting conversation, and because they're not predictable and 
one-dimensional like younger guys often are.

The typical 25-year-old woman is more emotionally mature than the
guys her age, and for this reason, she often finds herself more 
intrigued by older men.

But there is a time and a place for being serious.

Imagine what it feels like when you go from working hard at your 
job for months on end, and then taking a holiday and kicking back 
on a beach.

This is the laidback, carefree type of energy you want to bring to 
your interactions with younger women.

If you are having trouble lightening up and chilling out when you 
get involved in flirtatious conversations with women, take a closer look at
your reality and your lifestyle.

If your reality and lifestyle are completely filled with work and 
seriousness, then it can be pretty difficult to instantly switch 
into "fun" mode when you're out meeting younger women.

"Serious" guys tend to watch serious movies and television shows 
(including a lot of TV news and politics, which can be quite 
depressing), and listen to music that isn't in tune with the 
tastes of the younger generation.

I suggest you switch up the types of shows, movies and music that 
you normally feel comfortable with. 

Try some TV shows like "Scrubs," "Curb Your Enthusiasm," and "The
Office," which aren't particularly deep or meaningful but are 
laugh-out-loud funny. 

Buy some magazines that are playful and fun.

Listen to some music that is new and maybe a little trashy.

This also gives you fun conversational topics to talk to these young women 
about. That hot 25-year-old babe at the bar might know a 
surprising amount about politics, but that doesn't mean she wants 
to talk about it when she's unwinding with a few drinks. 

Save the deeper discussions for once you're dating her.

Her first impression of you should be fun, playful and youthful.

Some guys need to make a concerted effort to add some light stuff 
into their reality, so that being playful and relaxed around 
women isn't such a challenge. 

When you talk to your friends, make an effort to not dwell on 
the serious stuff, and get in the habit of just being able to 
talk about stuff that is not that important and does not matter 
in the big picture of things.

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3. Go Out!
As guys get older, their social circles tend to shrink. Your 
friends eventually get married and have kids, and become totally 
immersed in all of that.

Or maybe you've moved recently and haven't developed much of a 
social scene in your new city. Perhaps you just don't go out much 
anymore, because you feel a little too "old" to be hanging 
around at the bars and clubs like you used to.

This may seem obvious, but you must get out of the house and make 
an effort to socialize.

Maybe combine your socializing with an interest or hobby.

Personal development groups always seem to be filled with 
attractive women.

If you've always been shy, then it's time to shake that off and 
become more social. Make it one of your goals to make at least 
two people feel good about themselves, every week.

This will lead to a multitude of friends, and people liking you.

Break any patterns of judging people, or staying in your shell, 
and make an effort to say hello and make friendships.

You'd be surprised how easy it is to do once you get started.

Specific Age-Related Issues:

Do you lie about your age, or tell the truth?

It's best to tell the truth, but in my opinion, you don't have 
to tell her your age straight away.

Women may want all the information on you immediately, but you 
don't have a responsibility to tell her everything upfront and 
in the first few minutes, or even hours.

Use intrigue, and reveal things about yourself over time. 

If every time she hangs out with you, you reveal some new talent 
or hobby of yours, she'll be endlessly curious and interested in 
knowing more about you.

This is way more effective than listing your accomplishments and 
interests in the first fifteen minutes you spend talking to her.

The young women will often use standard job interview-type questions when 
they first meet a man--such as your age, your job, where you live, 
etc.

It's better to bypass this "Q&A" and engage the younger women on a fun, more 
creative level. Stimulate that side of her, and don't cater to her 
analytical and probing side--where she's asking the questions, 
you're trying to come up with the "right" answers, and she's 
running it all through her mental computer and figuring out 
whether you're the type of guy she should be interested in.


Rule of the Thumb: Always Be Young to the Younger Women!

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