date with her. But the day before you're supposed to hang out,
she suddenly gives you a call and tells you she can't make it
anymore because of
do besides slamming the phone down in anger?
Here are a few tips on what to do when a woman
flakes out on you:
1) Understand that she has probably flaked out on you
due to her LOW ATTRACTION LEVEL for you. If a woman likes you
"enough", she will NOT play these flake-out games. And if
she REALLY, REALLY likes you, she'll drop whatever she's
doing to CHASE AFTER you. So the fact that she is flaking out
on you shows that:
a) She doesn't have that much interest in you.
b) She doesn't have a lot of respect for you as a
potential lover.
Solution? Flirt with women plenty and build up the
chemistry BEFORE you ask for their numbers or for dates.
2) If a woman flakes out and gives you a "B.S. excuse",
act like you can SEE THROUGH her B.S. and tell her to just
come out without even blinking your eyes.
Examples:
"Yeah yeah yeah. Coming out will make your headache
better, okay. I'll meet you at 7. Bye."
"Well, cancel it. I'm more fun."
3) If she gives a VALID reason (funeral, etc) then you
can give her another chance, provided that she COUNTER-OFFERS
by setting up another date right away. But if she tells you
that she's "not sure yet" or will have to "get back to you",
you can be certain that she's not very interested in you at all.
In this case, just throw her number away.
4) Even if she has a valid reason, don't be afraid of
sounding just a bit little "dissapointed" in her behaviour.
Don't get angry or raise your voide. Instead, sound "dissapointed"
because she is falling below your expectations. (If you're
too "nice" every time, her respect for you will eventually drop
to zero.)
Hurry! Your love life is waiting for you!
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