social sites like Facebook or MySpace.
But one of the biggest problems guys have with these sites, is
HOW they present themselves.
What I learned is this, your Facebook profile is the FIRST
impression you make with women.
If it's good, she'll want to talk to you.
On the other hand, if your profile contain "deal breaker",
then she'll click "Next" and move on.
When it comes to Facebook (and online dating sites), you should
ALWAYS remember this important fact... Women look at profiles
in a different way than guys!
While we look for attractive and interesting women, THEY look for
specific things that'll DISQUALIFY a guy.
So your profile is more about what NOT to include.
In other words, you have to take a CLOSE look at what you're
putting in your profile.
So today we're going to cover six ways you can dramatically
improve your Facebook or MySpace profile:
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1 - Showcase Quality Pictures
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Women are like guys in one way. When they're looking at a
profile, the first area they look at is the Photos section.
If you want to improve your Facebook success , I recommend you
initially focus on this section.
It's REALLY important to spend a little money on the pictures
that you include in your profile. In other words, you should get
PROFESSIONAL shots taken and use them as your primary photos.
Think of it as an investment. For the price of a few hundred
dollars, you'll have photographs that'll bring out the best in
you!
Besides your primary photos, you should also include other images
that show you doing exciting things. Women want to be with an
interesting guy, so you should include pictures that showcase you
doing adventurous stuff!
Furthermore, it also helps to include pictures of you with your
friends AND other women. If done in a subtle way, you can show
that you have a social life and you're pres-selected by women.
Finally, DELETE any 'tagged' pictures that don't make you look
your best. Sure it might be funny to see you drunk and passed
out at some party, but this is a look that most women don't find
attractive.
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2- Use Proper English
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I'm going to be honest here...
MOST guys really suck when it comes to writing things on their
Facebook profile. Primarily, they use slang, make spelling
mistakes and include tons of grammatical errors.
While I'm NOT an authority on writing, I DO have a profile that's
mistake free. Plus I make sure that it's written in PROPER
English.
Remember that women look for reasons to DISQUALIFY men. Don't
be a moron. Look over your profile AND make sure it's mistake
free.
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3- Write in a Positive Tone
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Your Facebook profile is NOT the time for confession. I'm
going to restate the obvious...women WANT to disqualify you. By
providing a list of faults, you'll only give her a reason to
instantly click away from your profile.
For instance, here are some things you should NOT include on your
profile:
* Self deprecating humor
* A discussion of failed relationships and/or divorces
* Any hatred or animosity towards women
* Insecure or needy comments
* Rants about unimportant topics
The goal of your profile is to appear like a guy who is cool and
free from baggage. Basically you want her to think that you're
interesting enough to meet and possibly date!
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4- Be Adventurous
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Most women who use Facebook to meet guys want a bit of adventure
and excitement. The truth is ALL women want a guy who can be
both fun and interesting.
Keep this fact in mind when you're writing your profile. Instead
of discussing boring topics, you should focus on acting like an
exciting guy that'll pique her curiosity.
For instance, don't talk about your educational background,
discuss the interesting things you've done with your life.
(If you haven't done anything, then talk about goals you want
to accomplish!).
Furthermore, the WAY you write can have a positive effect on
women. Focus on writing about yourself in a fun and descriptive
manner. Use emotional descriptions rather than bland statements.
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5- Be a Little Mysterious
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While it's important to accurately describe yourself, you don't
want to be TOO forthcoming about your entire life. Your Facebook
profile is NOT the place to list everything you've ever done.
Instead of trying to cover every potential question, you want to
leave some blanks in your life. These "question marks" will
provide great topics of conversation over email, on the phone and
in person. Remember that a bit of mystery can be a good thing!
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6- Be challenging
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One mistake guys make is to appear desperate enough to date ANY
women. Making a statement like this can be huge mistake. By
telling women that you don't care WHO you date, you're only
demonstrating a lack of standards in your life.
Instead of being open to dating any girl, you should be a little
challenging with who you "accept". For instance, you can list
the PERSONALITY types that interest you. Or you could discuss
some hobbies you hope to find in a girl.
Women WANT to be with guys who have standards. If they know
they're selected over OTHER girls, then they'll value what you
have to offer.
Just remember that Facebook (and other online dating sites) only
gives you ONE shot at making a first impression. If your profile
stinks, she'll quickly move on to the next guy.
So if you want to improve your chances, then I recommend you
implement the six elements I discussed in this article and create
a profile that'll instantly attract the attention of EVERY woman!
And finally, I think it's important to take a STRATEGIC approach
when using the Internet to meet women.
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You can reprint this post in your website or blog and link back to my home page, Modern Men's Online Dating Guide blog - Ron C.
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