I Like You for I LOVE YOU, Huh

The three worded phrases – how I used to yearn for that, could have died for that (well, at one point of time, NOT now though). If you have not guessed it yet, it was the cornerstone of love and romance, the gateway to initiating the full-fledged course of the sexual interaction between a man and a woman, I LOVE YOU.

My personal experience, along with the study on various other specimens of the human male species, has confirmed one thing and that is WE ARE READY TO CONFESS OUR LOVE TO THE OPPOSITE SEX. We don’t even whether it is love or not at times, but still “I love you” for us means we want you sexually, we desire you. Some people will differ with me here but I believe most will agree to that.

Who said women are intriguing, should have studied men a bit deeply. When a man says he loves somebody, is that love, sympathy or lust? No one knows. If the girl confesses profound love, the boy gets scared about what will happen to his other options, while secretly he always wanted to fall in love and get his special girl. Men do not always know what he wants, and knowing what you want can be hard to decide for anyone for that matter.

Anyway, back to our topic, if you are craving to hear that I LOVE YOU from the girl you want and she is only stuck at I LIKE YOU, do not worry. That will be my suggestion. Tell you something very honestly and very important, so keep your ears tuned… When a girl says she likes you, and uses only “like you”, without any appendage “as a friend”, she is falling into love with you. A girl says she “likes” you only when she is not sure of how committed you are to her. Once you express your own emotion for her, she feels more ready to “fall in love”. 

Notice the phrases used here. There is a lot of difference between each of them, namely, “I like you”, “I love you”, and “falling in love”. In short, when a girl says she likes you, she already loves you, and she will like to fall in love with you. She is just waiting to see how much care you can show her once she FALLS. According to the traditional dating rules for women, a girl can say, “I love you” only when she falls in love with that person. And she falls in love when she certainly knows that the other person will reciprocate her feelings. 

Then she will “fall” in love and then she will say, “I like you”.

The three main reasons why she won’t say love you but rather like you:

1. She does not want to be a slut by making herself look easy.
2. She has some doubt about him still in her mind.
3. She does not want to fall in love, so she can’t accept that.

Do not worry. If she LIKES you, she probably LOVES you.

Okay here are some people who will think that their platonic long-time friend, when she says she likes them, loves them or desires them romantically. This is wrong. Even if we have a platonic friend, we can like her. The platonic relationship does not count here. This theory is only applicable where the sexual vibe has been created in the interaction and where the girl’s demeanor clearly shows that expects more from you. This theory is applicable where you feel the girl wants you and still blurbs out that she likes you, instead of saying she loves you.

Don’t go by her words. Go by her actions. Be socially intelligent. After all, we are social animals. 
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