She already gave you her number! Koolio! But...
The possible reason could be that giving you her number was a trouble-free exit. For women, that exit is over and over again found by being polite. It was much simpler for her to play polite and give you her number rather than shaking her head and saying: “Sorry, I’m not interested.” We identify it sounds weird, but offering you her number was a get-out-of-the-awkward-situation-free card. If she told you she didn’t desire to exchange digits, you may have asked why, which is a hotter seat for her to be placed in than merely giving it over. By being cheery and calling out her number she didn’t have to menace that awkward scenario. These ways, she can to a certain extent just avoid you off by never picking your calls.
The additional achievable reason for not calling you back could be for the reason that she is a bit professional about dating means play the hard to get. That would make her feel wanted and very special if you keep trying her number and chasing her. She just wants to confirm that you are seriously into her and not just passing your time with her. So just wait it out for a few days to a week. If, you still haven’t had any call from her, it’s time to stop expecting the call because you know why she didn't return your call.
When you chatted with her up at the bar, she reciprocated each and every one your flirts and appeared pretty enthusiastic to grant you her number at the end of the night. Some days later you called her only to have a conversation with her voice mail and a later one of puzzlement with yourself because she never called you back. What is happening? Here are a few possible causes why she went MIA on you and why she didn't call you back.
She hit upon something about you that put her off. Women are complex beings and they’re habituated to changing their minds frequently. They’ll shop a new pair of jeans excitedly only to return them the very next day because they realized the jeans make their butts look big or is not shapely enough. You have now become that pair of jeans. At Match Doctor, she thought you were wonderful, with your humor and, indefinable sexiness. But, when she told her friends about you, they cautioned her to a thing or two you had said that made her to do rethinking and thereby affected her decision to answer your call. If her friends spoke something to her that just didn’t "feel correct" about how you talked about your ex or didn’t mention about her at all, she definitely took her friends' advice into account, which is one cause she didn't return your call. One more reason could be that she discovered a bit about you from a different source, such as your Face book profile. On seeing those naked pictures of yours running through a garden sprinkler at a bachelor party, she felt that was not a right way. In the future, it would do you fine to set your profile to confidential. Wouldn’t it be?
There’s one more guy in the picture. It could be that she was merely seeing him on a casual level when she exchanged numbers with you. Or she wasn’t promising you anything or anyone in particular and thought it wouldn’t harm to widen the dating personals field a little. But, now things have transformed in her life. The other guy at present, she’s dating entirely, and he’s the magician who made her disappear. Though it would be a much better situation to dare the guy head-on and succeed the lady in the end, the good thing is her vanishing act has nothing to do with your performance.
And yes, you don’t have to run your memory very much to recall that alcohol and lots of it was the third companion that night. She got so intoxicated that she wasn’t thinking without a doubt and did something she wouldn’t normally do like giving her number to a guy she just now met. When her phone rang during her hangover, she perhaps annoyed in embarrassment, thinking just what else she exchanged with you. Or she might not even keep in mind the digit exchange! So you see? It’s just a safer stake for her not to answer your call.
Calling Norm
The next time you have a chat with a beautiful woman at the bar, tender to order her a soda after three strong drinks. By that means, she’ll be in the right frame of mind for the number exchanged, and your crafty charm will later be rewarded with her name blinking on your cell phone.
I seriously want your opinion on this article. I want to see what you have to say. Is she right?
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