Okay, time for another post…Normally my posts are not decided upon by some technical method or by some ghostwriter sitting on another corner of the globe. It is my point to provide some value to my readers, not by simply answering to their questions but provoking further questions, encouraging their growth as a dating philosopher, as a real man.
But There Are Categories of Men…
Anyway this time I want to categorize men. Over the time, I have found something, rather discovered something which is totally ingenious and highly useful to know in the field of dating and pickup women. I have found the typical categories of men that exist on this earth and in which category we fall. If you know what category you fit in, you will be able to project a congruent personality which is ATTRACTIVE to women. Women want men who know what they are, what they want and how they act. It measures the level of confidence in men.
Knowing the categories of men, which category you currently fit in and how you can improve to a better one, you will actually be working on your inner game, and we all know that inner game ultimately leads to ALMOST perfect outer game. Why almost? Well, I am a very practical person and nothing in this world is perfect. So, you better accept that and don’t buy in the fake words of the internet marketers who say that they have a product that can get you any woman, anytime, anywhere. Yes, that’s true…you will get BULLS*T anytime, anywhere.
Categories of Men
Okay no more ranting from me…Let’s get straight to the point.
First category of men: Someone who the women say, “He is just not my type”
Second category of men: Someone who the women say, “He is sexy”
Third category of men: Someone who the women say, “He is hot”
Now, the first category of men is to whom the women respond with something, as “he is not my type”. But just because she says he is not her type, it does not mean that he is not her type. Many a times, you will find that two persons, completely different to one another, are intertwined in that special bond of love. At first, the woman must have said, he is not my type. Here’s the paradox. Women might not mean what they say. At times, when she says that he is not her type, she does not really mean that he is not her type. She just means that he is different from her or from what she thinks she wants. Total psychology mumbo jumbo!
But then again, at certain times, the woman does feel that he is not her type, and this time, it roots from her feeling that he is not of sufficient value to her. While in the previous case, the woman wasn’t sure of his value and she was just thinking he is different to her, she is certain of his perceived value in this case and rules him out. This is where you don’t want to be. If she does not think high of you, she must not think low of you.
In the second category of men, she says he is sexy. Have you ever seen a man with a hot body, loud confident attitude and flashy appearance? Yes, you have and he does look good, projects some social status, true enough. Now let’s dig deeper into what the woman is actually thinking or feeling. She is focusing on his appearance, for god’s sake. She is curious about him, only through his flashy cool appearance. And this curiosity makes her go closer to him. But here’s the catch. When she goes in, she also goes in his soul and tries to find out what kind of a person he is. If he is all appearance, he loses out in the game. And in many cases, the girl does not even have to go close to that person to know him. Remember, the girl does not want to. He is only an eye candy for her, not the man she is looking for. Women have strong sixth sense. She will inherently know if he is worthwhile as a person or not. It is his vibe, his demeanor, his actions that tells her so.
In the third category of men, she thinks he is hot, and this is what you want to be. When she says he is hot, don’t imagine someone as David Beckham or Hrithik Roshan. Yes, looks do matter but what she means is THE PERSON. He might not have six-packed abs but he IS the person with whom she wants to have sex. It is in his eyes, it is in his smile, it is in his walk, and it is in his talk…it is in his goddamn personality. There is something beyond his appearance that pulls her towards him. That’s why she says he is hot. For this reason, you will find that some women find the old Sam Elliot hot. They find something inside that man, which transcends beyond his graying hair, his aging body and his old cowboy style. It is his vibe, the energy that he oozes. She does not need to see, but rather she needs to FEEL the man who will make her feel like a woman.
That wasn’t too thought provoking and difficult to understand, was it? This almost came to me as an epiphany. Read it over and figure out for yourself where you stand.
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