Aug 3, 2010

Phones Text Game and The Essentials!

In the 21st century, who doesn’t phone text someone? It is just so common.

Now, mobile phones, PDAs and handhelds are the order of the century, no denying that.
And so the rise of the phone game mastery! Phew! Why is it so important?

Well, phones are the devices that aim to reduce the distance between two persons. They make sure that, even if you go out of sight, you still stay in the mind for as long as possible. A very useful device it is.

And when we are talking of phones game, one of the most important features you find in almost every phone yet that marks a significant change in your total social dynamics, your interaction with a woman, is…

Phone Text Game!

Now before we even proceed, let me be clear. Phones text game is nothing but a scaffold to your original real game. Very obviously, you cannot always stay within the phone all the time, and seldom does it happen that you start with the phone.

When delving with the online game thingy, you might have to take her number first and then move on to the real life game. Moreover, even when you don’t do the phones game (I mean hearing the voice and all), you still can get an idea how she is as a person. So, even before you meet her, you get an idea how it is going to go. 

So, in any case, you have to build this phone text game, if you want to work it out in the real life.

But the text game comes with a lot of limitations as well.

The first and foremost disadvantage while playing the phone text game is that you cannot get access to the emotional expression of the person. That can be a serious drawback.

If that does not deter you, you might seldom have to wait for an answer. This removes the spontaneous flow from the conversation, unless both the persons are basically focusing on communicating over the phone texts.

It is extremely difficult for two working professionals to engage in full-blown phones text exchange. Some, like me, don’t even get the drive to keep on texting someone one after another.

Phone text game is one hard way to catch hold of one person, leave alone game alone that person. But still, needless to say, keeping in mind the today’s fast-paced technological lifestyle, you cannot leave that out of your arsenal.

The best way to employ phones text game is regulating the frequency of phone texts and also using it only to facilitate a real life game.

I realized over the time, unless she and you have got loads of time, it is useless to use the phones text game all the time. If she is busy and you keep on texting her, you come off as a needy person.

Rather, use the phones text game when you think you have to remind her of you. Next, use the texting game to set up a real date with her.

Let me tell you a story, I once met a girl. I got her phone number and kept texting her for some time. She never replied. I thought she was a flake, only to later come to know that she already lost that phone a long time back. That’s how unreliable phones text game can be.

Bottom-line: You got to know how to play and that’s what does not help, should be dispensed with or at least reduced in effect.

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