Jan 12, 2010

Are You Picking Up Hot Women?!

Today I’m going to speak on how to pick up hot babes, means the ones that are HB9’s and HB10’s.

Now, before we go on to picking up women, what the basic idea of the whole picking up process is. It is essentially selling you to the girl. That is what you do. The more value you are to her, the more likely she is going to be with you.


And what makes something valuable to us? If it fulfils our basic wants and needs, and it is rare, then it is valuable. Simple rule it is. You got to give her what she wants and what she normally doesn’t get from other men who don’t have game.

Let’s say she has a present boyfriend and that boyfriend fulfils her emotional and physical needs very well. Do you think you have a chance with her? Yes, you have but for that you need to have a really high quality GAME. Even then, you might not be able to get her. Why? She has better connection with that guy. So, he’s basically way ahead of you.

Anyway, so when you are going to pick up a hottie, you must first understand what she lacks and what she wants. And that’s what we are going to discuss in here.

Try to understand that a HB9 or a HB10 lives in a different reality, which nobody can imagine. She has always got things easy and everything around her goes according to her whims. Except her father, no man has ever been able to stand up to her and she feels there’s a dearth of MEN out there.
Even if she came across some men, they turned out to fake personas, who were just trying to act like men. Men are just not men anymore.

Then, with a bit more experience, she came across the players of the society. They acted confident and smart, yeah, kind of attractive they were. But they were not truthful at all. They didn’t really care about connecting with her. They just wanted to use-n-throw her. It was a kind of heartbreak! Alas! Players are interesting, but she needs someone genuine and masculine.

Remember, players are not really entertained because more or less, every man gawks at her and wants a piece of her. The players are no different from these gruesome figures of men. She wants someone like her father, someone she can respect, depend on and feel attracted to at the same time. She doesn’t need to be desired but she needs to surrender to that man who is strong and honest.

Yes, by now you must have understood what she wants. She wants to neither be sexually desired nor be with an unworthy man. She is looking for that man, who has a strong reality (strong enough to overmaster her) and who is not dishonest as the other men are. He is genuine and trustworthy, a sense of honesty to himself.
She doesn’t want to see any player vibe in her guy. She doesn’t want her guy to be too flashy and good-looking.  Remember, what she lacks in the men in her life is HONESTY and GENUINENESS. That’s what she wants.

Next, what she wants is SEXUAL CONFIDENCE. This one attracts each and every woman out there. They don’t want you to be a jerk, but they do want you to be confident and possess a strong reality frame.

The best thing about this type of girls is that they don't go for looks in a guy. They don't want ultra-pretty looking boys. But however, a bit of fashion sense is always preferred. They are so sure of their own good looks that they don't really focus on that anymore. They are normally more quality than the HB7's and HB8's are. HB7's and HB8's know they are beautiful but still they are bit insecure about it. So they attach a lot of importance to it.

So, the three ways to stand out to a hottie are:
  •           Go Extreme DIRECT. Convince her that you are real, honest in your desire and that you have a strong frame that nothing deters you. But remember, you need to persist HARD and CONSISTENT in this one, till the end of the world.
  •          Go Extreme INDIRECT. She hasn’t met anyone who ignores her like that. She would be curious and when she knows about you, she feels that you are real and passionate about life. She feels attracted to you.
  •          Go Extreme DRAMA. Now what does that mean? You just annoy her SO much that you be in her mind always. You just shake her reality and show her that you are SO fucking strong in your reality frame. And moreover, if you are annoying her, it signals to her that you are for real, because no man who wants to impress her would dare to annoy her.
Quick Tips for Men to Pick Up Hot Women
  •          Tease the hell out of her. Bust on her. Shows strong reality and confidence.
  •          Show genuine interest at the right time and that also in a very dominant frame.

That’s called Flirting like a Rockstar! And never would you have a dearth of women in your life again…!

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