A nice guy walks into a bar, sees a beautiful woman, tells her how
pretty she is, showers her with compliments and then...
...watches in wonderment as she walks away with a guy who is, shallwe say, not so nice.
Women love to get compliments from men, no doubt. But there are
the good kind, and the bad kind, and most men give the bad kind.
When the nice guy compliments a woman, he does so in a very general
manner, with his ulterior motive obvious. Women resent these kinds
of compliments because it's obvious he's doing it to invoke
reciprocation.
It's not novel. It's not different. It's the same nonsense she's
heard from 12 different nice guys today. She knows she's hot. She
knows she's pretty. She wants something different.
The attractive man doesn't hand out compliments like candy. He
only gives one when he sees something he truly likes. He has no
ulterior motive linked to any compliment. He knows he's
attractive. He has no need to "buy" a woman through compliments.
But there's something else he does when he gives a compliment,
something the nice guy is afraid to do. He laces it with subtle,
sexual innuendo. Not blatant, but subtle.
He may tell a woman he likes her... jeans. But he lowers his voice
just a bit when he says, "jeans," sending a jolt of unexpected
chemistry through her body. And her looks her in the eye, and
smirks just a tiny bit, letting her know he knows what she just
felt.
Much, much different from how a nice guy would compliment a woman.
A nice guy sterilizes it, an attractive man adds in just enough
innuendo to stimulate her mind and let it start to work on itself.
That's the right way to compliment a woman.
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pretty she is, showers her with compliments and then...
...watches in wonderment as she walks away with a guy who is, shallwe say, not so nice.
Women love to get compliments from men, no doubt. But there are
the good kind, and the bad kind, and most men give the bad kind.
When the nice guy compliments a woman, he does so in a very general
manner, with his ulterior motive obvious. Women resent these kinds
of compliments because it's obvious he's doing it to invoke
reciprocation.
It's not novel. It's not different. It's the same nonsense she's
heard from 12 different nice guys today. She knows she's hot. She
knows she's pretty. She wants something different.
The attractive man doesn't hand out compliments like candy. He
only gives one when he sees something he truly likes. He has no
ulterior motive linked to any compliment. He knows he's
attractive. He has no need to "buy" a woman through compliments.
But there's something else he does when he gives a compliment,
something the nice guy is afraid to do. He laces it with subtle,
sexual innuendo. Not blatant, but subtle.
He may tell a woman he likes her... jeans. But he lowers his voice
just a bit when he says, "jeans," sending a jolt of unexpected
chemistry through her body. And her looks her in the eye, and
smirks just a tiny bit, letting her know he knows what she just
felt.
Much, much different from how a nice guy would compliment a woman.
A nice guy sterilizes it, an attractive man adds in just enough
innuendo to stimulate her mind and let it start to work on itself.
That's the right way to compliment a woman.
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