Is That The Woman You Want?

From Shelley McMurtry - 

Whew! The cold front got to Austin last night at around 3:15am... and
I soon found myself outside, in the freezing cold wind (in my
Victoria Secret nightgown, nonetheless), picking up various items
that had blown off of the porch and into the yard because... yes... my
dumb ass didn't pay attention to the weather reports & wind
advisory and failed to take precautions prior to the cold front
arriving.
I only hope that my lack of planning & precautionary measures at
least allowed my neighbors to have a good show- because I'm pretty
sure I looked pretty silly out there in my short, floral, pink
nightgown running around the yard.

Well, today I'm going to talk about one of the most simple, but
also most ignored, concepts of attraction.

Here it is: A man should "BE" whom he wants to attract.

And this is what I mean by that... If a man desires an emotionally
secure, happy, interesting, balanced, sexually confident woman-
then he needs to be an emotionally secure, happy, interesting,
balanced, sexually confident man.

When a man "becomes" what he wants to attract, then he'll start to
act the way and will gravitate towards the places, events,
situations and outcomes that likeminded people go... and then he'll
find his likeminded woman.

Something that drives me nuts (really it saddens me) is witnessing
a good percentage of men who are constantly angry and grumpy.
They're angry over politics, various drivers on the road, their
boss or job, their bodies, or how everything is "changing"...
they're
always angry over something. It seems to be the only constant in
their life.

Living in Austin, TX. as I do, I see many bumperstickers when I'm
driving. Many of these are "angry" stickers, with the automobile
owner feeling that they need to tell all drivers in a close range
how they hate tailgaters, or dislike Obama, or feel they're more
environmentally aware than other people, or possibly their child is
an honor student and somehow better than most of the other
students... so on and so forth. This is pretty much like a barking
dog- barking behind a fence at passers by... but only making noise
and not really doing any good.

Some people have gotten so accustomed to being angry and grumpy-
that they don't even realize that all they're doing is "barking"...
and it isn't necessarily funny... or wise... and it certainly isn't
attractive.

In addition, when an individual begins to find comfort and
acceptance in their anger and grumpy views... they'll start to
gravitate towards, socialize with and meet likeminded people. And
before long they're surrounded by "barkers" who are negative,
grumpy, angry..... UCKKKK.... And guess what??? That is also who
they're likely to date and possibly marry.

And here's the thing about that- give this some thought: If a
person constantly focuses on the bad and negative, thrives on drama
and anger, and feels a sense of "power" by being grumpy and
expressing how right they are and how wrong anyone who doesn't
think their way is... then whew boy... that person is going to beabsolute hell to have a relationship or marriage with.

So.... If you desire an emotionally secure, happy, interesting,
balanced, sexually confident woman- then BE an emotionally secure,
happy, interesting, balanced, sexually confident man. Go to the
places that THOSE people go. Socialize with THAT type of person.
And avoid the barking dogs.

Or, as a good friend of mine ends all of his emails with, "Wag
More, Bark Less".
Make good things happen now.
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