Approaching Women Basics

Frame – Think SEXUAL and get SEXUAL

“Remember the golden rule of seduction: she feels what you feel. You in sexual state induce her to get into the sexual state. You in a frivolous state get her in a frivolous state. You in a negative mood can infuse negativity in her. Moreover, when you don’t focus on your inner voice, you don’t focus on impression but on unrestrained expression of yourself. Women love self-confidence in men, in other words, cocky men.”

Opener – something that FLIRTS.

“The best way to approach women is to vibe with her. So, the best openers are that are situationally relevant and flirtatious. If she’s at the grocery store or buying a book at the bookstall, you can comment her on that. It tells her that you are flirting with her but you are socially graceful. You can only flirt…you cannot push ever. Some people espouse the use of HI or HELLO. It’s equally effective since you are being outright about your interest, just as when you are complimenting her. But this at times asks you to break into the reality of the woman, which might not be acceptable for her. In a static situation where she is open to this, you can go with ‘hi’ or ‘hello’. But it’s been seen that a Hi has the highest success rate as an opener. But ultimately, it’s in the energy you transmit and it should always be flirtatious. A Hi is successful because sometimes, if you err with the situational comment, it can convey what you don’t want to mean whereas a Hi is always situationally relevant and flirtatious.”

Discipline – Set a target or a goal. You should approach a number of women within a set period of time. That keeps up your momentum and sees you undergo continuous improvement in the field.

“I’ve a girlfriend and I’m taking it slow. My target is to approach at least one woman every week. I don’t like to spin too many plates at a time. But just to be on the move, I am keeping this goal. Choose what is best for you.”

You should know the right techniques (learn from THE DATING GURU) and should be committed enough to keep to it. That’s the secret to a master seducer.

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